Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What is legally "married?"

A: In the State of California, a legal "marriage" must take place according to the laws of the County in which the ceremony takes place. You are officially "married" when a legally authorized person** performs the ceremony, signs the license and submits the signed license to the county clerks office. One witness in addition to the Bride and Groom's signature must also be on the marriage license.  You must exchange your vows of commitment, but wedding rings are optional and not required.

*authorized persons are all clergy (i.e. pastors, priests, ministers, rabbis, etc and others like Judges, Justices of the Peace, etc.)

Q: What is a re-commitment ceremony?

A: Most re-commitment ceremonies are done at special anniversary's (10th, 25th and 50th Anniversary's) or when a couple reunites after a separation. These services are very emotional and touching as there is more of a story to tell with plenty of memories. The ceremony is performed the same as the first marriage with most couples writing there own vows and sharing romantic stories.

Q: We were married in a small civil ceremony at the County Courthouse and no one knows or we just want to retake our vows. Can we get married again in a ceremony with our friends and family?

A: Of course! The only thing that changes is the filing of any paperwork as you should have already received your license. It would be up to you as to how to present the ceremony to your friends and family. I would perform the ceremony as an Officiant the same as I would any couple. Most call this a "re-commitment" ceremony but no one needs to know if you don't want them too.

Q: Do you issue our Marriage License?

A: No, you will need to pick up your marriage license prior to the ceremony. If you live in California, you may pick up your "PUBLIC" license in your own County and bring it with you. NOTE: A "CONFIDENTIAL" license can only be used in the County in which it is issued.

Q: Do we have to get married in a church?

A: You can get married in the State of California anywhere within the legal boundaries of the State. That includes all public and private buildings, parks and beaches, not just churches. Bodies of water are also acceptable (lakes, rivers, etc.)

Q: What should we consider for a customized wedding ceremony?

A: My services vary from non-denominational with traditional religious references to no religious reference at all! Romantic readings and favorite songs are always wonderful to add to the ceremony. Just remember, It's your special day and the ceremony should consist of meaningful segments from you. Don't confuse a wedding ceremony with a church ceremony.

Q: Can we write our own vows?

A: Yes and I encourage it. Of course, with all aspects of your wedding ceremony, if you need guidance, I can certainly help with suggestions.

Q: Do you require premarital counseling?

A: No, I do not require premarital counseling.

Q: What do you charge?

A: My fee varies based on location and time and the proximity to other weddings that may be booked for the same day.

Q: What is included?

A: My fee includes a meeting with the couple, any conversations up to the wedding day either by phone or email, a ceremony handbook that you will receive on our first meeting that includes all facets of the ceremony and sample scripts and a pre-written ceremony.

Q: Do you supply a sound system?

A: Please CLICK HERE for information on sound.

Q: Do you require to be included in the reception?

 A: Although some officiates in the area require they (and with some, their spouse) be included in the reception, I do not. That is entirely up to you. During the busy Spring and Summer months, time may not allow me to participate.

Q: What about a name change?

A: The first one to change is your Social Security card. You can use this link to get a Social Security card application. You can use a certified copy of your marriage license as documentation